Too Much. Not Enough.

Why is it

I feel so defined

By when I am not enough

Or when I am too much?

Too tall

Not feminine enough

Too loud

Not coordinated enough

Too emotional

Not serious enough

Too much thinking

And yet,

in my best moments

I am whole.

Not “too” this

Or “not enough” that

But

Like a giant puzzle

The toos fill in the nots.

Is this what it means

To be well-rounded?